I have not put much on here lately because I am still catching up from our trip. I have just been busy and then we had all of that rain.
But a few weeks ago my longest BEST FRIEND ever called me and asked if I would fill out a paper for an adoption recommendation for her. I won't go into details but I can say this little girl has been through alot. She is a wonderful child and her future is bright! Matt is her natural father and Karla married Matt but took her in and cared for her as if she was her child. Something like that would be hard for alot of people but Karla did it without hesitation. It wasn't a smooth road but thru faith,love and a wonderful marriage they are building and molding a wonderful child.
So I had to fill out a paper for my recommendation on Karla adopting Debbie. I felt honored that she asked me to do this. I know I am not the only one she had to ask but she has so many friends and it just made me feel so great that after all of these years she still thinks my words are special. Did I forget to mention Karla and I have been friends since we were 9? Yes that makes me feel old.
After writing the recommendation letter I realized I was crying through typing it. I never had to stop and think about what I was writing, it was just coming out. I didn't realize anything until I was finished and had to proof it. This family is amazing! I am going to post my letter on here. I feel that this family has so much to offer to the world! They are BEAUTIFUL.

As a couple I have known The Whittington Family for approx. 5 years, Karla has been a lifelong friend of about 23+ years. She moved to Austin and we still to this day keep in touch almost daily. I have only known Matt for about 5 years but know he is a great husband and father.
I have spoke to Karla daily thru email,phone,mail for a good 5 years straight now and rarely talk to Matt only because my main goal is chatting with Karla. We commonly call each other for advice on our children or to just chat.
I have not been able to visit the Whittington Household only because I have several children involved in activities but I am welcome to stay at anytime with a moments notice and will be doing this soon. Normally the family visits me when they come to Houston and I look forward to it every time.
I feel the couple communicates amazingly well. They have been thru alot with the birth of their children and have pulled thru it wonderfully. I feel the stress of sick children would put a strain on most families and they seem to work together as a team and pull everything together and keep it that way. I also know they work together at everything to ensure their children are raised in a healthy loving home.
I believe this couple is an amazing set of parents! They have happy,healthy,loving and well mannered children. Both parents came from loving very involved families.
I have seen no instability in their marriage at all. Karla and I talk about things that we don't share with others. Personal things and never once have we had a conversation that talked badly or negative. The love they have for each other is very strong and growing everyday. They have faith and love.
I have seen the couple handle stress thru communication. They both want a healthy and stable environment for their children with lots of love.
I have been amazed by the couples ability to care for Debbie. I don't think it is easy to raise someone else's child but I have never heard Karla call her a "step child" or her "step daughter" Karla boast about Debbie and is very proud of her. She is proud to call her Daughter. She loves her as her birth child and treats her great. I have not seen in person Debbie and Matt interact but over the phone thru pictures and emails I have seen a man step up and care for his daughter.
I have no concerns over this adoption. I think this is the most helpful thing that can happen to Debbie. She needs love,closure and a good stable home. Something her parents Matt and Karla can and do provide for her.
I think it is very easy in our Society for Debbie to get "lost" and take the easy road to trouble and I know for a fact this will not happen. Matt and Karla have the strength and love to encourage her thru life. They support Debbie in everyway possible and push her to achieve her goals and dreams.
Thank you,
Sandra Kimball